{"id":3323,"date":"2021-11-25T10:17:32","date_gmt":"2021-11-25T10:17:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/evagruber.org\/?p=3323"},"modified":"2021-11-25T10:17:32","modified_gmt":"2021-11-25T10:17:32","slug":"why-do-i-judge-myself-but-please-others","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/evagruber.org\/de\/why-do-i-judge-myself-but-please-others\/","title":{"rendered":"Why do I judge myself but please others?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It was a sunny morning in Vienna, as Wendy Capewell invited me to sit down and record a show for her podcast<strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/love-listen-talk-repeat.libsyn.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Love~Listen~Talk~Repeat<\/a><\/strong>!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our focus topic was everyone\u2019s <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/evagruber.org\/mentalfitness\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Mental Self-Sabotage<\/a><\/strong>, and the common challenge of so many of us\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why do I judge myself but please others?<br \/>\n#toxic<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wendy Capewell is a Relationship and Trauma Specialist, I&#8217;m a Habit Coach and Mental Fitness Expert. This awaits you in our very honest and fun show:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is Mental Self-Sabotage?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do your 10 so-called Mental Saboteurs show day-by-day?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do they justify their existence, even though they hinder you?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Who is your Master-Saboteur?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why is connecting to your body crucial?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How can the discovery of your Mental Saboteurs lift you? For example, &#8230;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Discovering the Judge in you could finally lift your career!<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Discovering the Hyper-Achiever in you could finally help you to feel happy!<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Discovering the Pleaser in you could finally help you to take care of yourself first, finding rest and clarity!<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Discovering the Avoider or Victim in you could finally help you stop playing the game of shame and self-pity!<br \/>\n<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How do your parent&#8217;s Mental Saboteurs impact yours?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How can you \u201cpeel off\u201d your 10 Mental Saboteurs, and leverage yourself with your 5 Sage Powers?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to step into your own clarity and wisdom?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/love-listen-talk-repeat.libsyn.com\/112-how-to-recognise-our-mental-negative-saboteurs-with-eva-gruber\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">> Click here to listen to our show! <<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tell me about your Judge and Pleaser!\u200b<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Which negative mind-chatter would you like to stop?<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Email me to hi[at]evagruber[dot]org.\u200b<br \/>\nI am here for you!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It was a sunny morning in Vienna, as Wendy Capewell invited me to sit down and record a show for her podcast Love~Listen~Talk~Repeat!\u00a0 Our focus topic was everyone\u2019s Mental Self-Sabotage,&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3332,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[189],"tags":[225,162,377,316,48,258,273,230,291,329,15,365,376,378,314,250,254,361,253,252,379,334,251],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/evagruber.org\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3323"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/evagruber.org\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/evagruber.org\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/evagruber.org\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/evagruber.org\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3323"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/evagruber.org\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3323\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3331,"href":"https:\/\/evagruber.org\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3323\/revisions\/3331"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/evagruber.org\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3332"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/evagruber.org\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3323"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/evagruber.org\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3323"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/evagruber.org\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3323"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}