{"id":4213,"date":"2024-10-07T08:40:23","date_gmt":"2024-10-07T08:40:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/evagruber.org\/?p=4213"},"modified":"2024-09-30T09:55:30","modified_gmt":"2024-09-30T09:55:30","slug":"the-most-important-investment-leaders-have-to-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/evagruber.org\/de\/the-most-important-investment-leaders-have-to-do\/","title":{"rendered":"The most important investment leaders have to do"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The currency for healthy relationships every leader should invest into its team daily, is trust. How can trust be built \u2014 or shattered?<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a first-time founder and COO back in the days, unexpected team dynamics and ever-rising workload heavily weighed on me. 5 years into that startup, I burnt out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Years later and until today, I am regularly asked as a speaker on stage: \u201cHow did you get into and out of the burnout slump?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Answering this curious and crucial question marks the important moment the audience gains trust in me:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I completely open up.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I share what truly happened.<br \/>\n<\/span><strong>I become vulnerable.<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vulnerability is no weakness at all. It\u2019s a fix to broken, suspicious relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Still, there are corporate cultures and behavior dynamics of leaders towards teams that stop us from being vulnerable \u2014 as we don\u2019t feel emotionally safe to share:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A leader that <strong>controls<\/strong> everything and everyone, at any time. Putting her\/his will into action \u2013 and by that killing the self-initiative, creativity and self-confidence of others as \u201cs\/he knows the best plan to succeed\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A leader that needs her\/his ever-growing success and acknowledgement by others. S\/he pushes a team \u201cup to the summit\u201d, <strong>hyper-achieving<\/strong> along the way. The team feels used over time. Trust is shattered too, as promises made \u201cto get to the summit\u201c didn\u2019t come true.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A leader that is stuck in her\/his <strong>hyper-rational<\/strong> mind and logic \u2014 running facts, numbers and figures about a problem, being unable to be present and engage. This leader doesn\u2018t feel emotionally available to a team \u2014 it doesn\u2019t feel seen. Lacking intuition, these leaders miss out on a key-ingredient for decision making as well as trust by others.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What do you take away on the topic of trust?<br \/>\nShare along, <a href=\"mailto:hi@evagruber.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">hi@evagruber.org<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Photo credit: Kasia Sosulski \/ aws First Incubator<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The currency for healthy relationships every leader should invest into its team daily, is trust. How can trust be built \u2014 or shattered? 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